David & Michal

Jul 30, 2026    Shane Allen

Before David ever said a word, his wife Michal had already decided what kind of man he was and she was wrong.


This message walks through the fallout of one of Scripture's most painful family conflicts to show how quickly we assume the worst about each other's motives, and how much of our conflict is really fueled by the story we tell ourselves rather than what was actually said or done. It's a challenge to slow down before reacting, to value understanding someone else over being understood, and to remember that pride always leaves a relationship worse than it found it.


The message lands on a hard but freeing truth: humility makes the first move toward reconciliation, even when you're convinced you're not the one who started it. This is for anyone carrying tension with a spouse, friend, or family member and wondering who should reach out first.